Begin by preparing the Jell-O base, which forms the foundation of this no-bake dessert. Dissolve 1 (3 ounce) package of strawberry Jell-O gelatin dessert in 1 cup of boiling water, making sure the water is boiling hot to guarantee the gelatin dissolves completely.
Add 1/2 cup of sugar and 2 cups of mini marshmallows to the hot mixture, stirring until both the sugar and marshmallows are fully dissolved. This step is vital—if the water isn't hot enough, the marshmallows won't dissolve properly and will affect the texture of your final dessert.
Allow the mixture to stand at room temperature until it reaches a thick, syrupy consistency, which typically takes 15-20 minutes.
Once the mixture has thickened to the proper consistency, use an electric mixer to beat it until it becomes light and fluffy. Gently fold in 1 pint of thawed Cool Whip and 2 cups of thawed frozen strawberries, combining them carefully to maintain the airy texture you've created. The berries should be thawed but still cold to help set the mixture properly.
To assemble the cake, line the bottom of an oblong cake pan with a layer of 1 (11 ounce) box of crushed vanilla wafers. Spread half of the berry mixture over this wafer layer, then add another layer of crushed wafers followed by the remaining berry mixture.
Top the dessert with a final layer of crushed wafers. Sprinkle 1 cup of chopped nuts over the top if desired. Transfer the assembled cake to the refrigerator and allow it to chill for several hours or overnight until the dessert is completely set. Serve directly from the refrigerator while well chilled for the best flavor and texture.